“Puritan Christian culture can turn marriage into a prison,” she says.
We regard sexless marriages (one fifth of all marriages in the US and Britain, according to her research) as more acceptable than marriages where the dissatisfied partner seeks sex outside the marriage without dismantling the family unit."The amount of times that people are approached when they have photos is multitudes more than when they don't," says Gian Gonzaga, Ph D, e Harmony's senior director of research and development and head of e Harmony Labs. Leave behind group shots, which can make it confusing for other people to identify you, advises Spira, and choose a headshot in which you are smiling."Your primary photo should be all about you." She recommends posting between three to five photos only—any more and "it's as if you're already smothering your future partner." Also, be sure to include a shot where you can see your body.Hakim says the optimal time for an affair is 45 for women, and 55 for men.Herself happily married, the author says she wouldn't care if her own husband had an affair, and thinks others should be equally open-minded."The key point is that we need to be more tolerant of them.Here, everything you need to know to find love on the World Wide Web.1.