This type of midlife crisis is rare, Colarusso says.
Now that we’ve confirmed your husband is a Chaos Kid, one of the most difficult things you’ll be faced with is understanding the fact that you can’t treat him like a normal man.
You’ll try to rationalize, make sense of the situation, buy cards for birthdays and holidays, apologize often, tell him you love him like you would in a normal marriage.
In over 15 years of working with couples, I’ve never seen one couple where both spouses came from healthy childhoods who had conflict in their marriage they couldn’t resolve on their own.
This is always a clue for me into what their dating efforts look like.
For many women, there seem to be few opportunities; so they tend to go into warp-drive when a man shows up. Let me explain.“The Chase” is old school terminology describing what a man does to win a woman over.